Why Men Don't Listen & Women Can't Read Maps

Assalamualaikum!!!! hehehe...

hmm... where should i start~~  biasenye kalo kite ngn kwn2 kite yg berlainan jantina, kdg2 kite marah atau kecik ati sbb dorg mcm buat2 x paham je ape yg kite nak.. contoh: Kite nak g kenduri, satu kete tue ade dak pompuan, ade dak laki. Tapi da jln lameeee da, still x sampai2. Obvious nye da sesat kan? So, nak jimat mase, dak2 pompuan suke je soh benti tnye org2 kt situ. Tapi dak2 laki plak xnak. Guess what? Kompom sesat x abes2. Pastu pompuan ape lagi? Mule la bebel bebel.... hehe. Dah dak pompuan bising, dak2 laki pon bengang... las2 x g kenduri. Kalo jmpe pn rumahnye, kua kete sume muke mcm tapai :-P

Isu nye nie skarang... mmg pompuan x paham lelaki, and same goes the other way around. Azalinye, lelaki dgn pompuan nie, ape yg same between us cume our SPECIES.... TAPI!! Cara kita berfikir sgtlah x sama... Kenape??? KERANA!!! Otak lelaki & perempuan x same. Scroll down a bit please :-)

  

Everyday evidence of our differences.........................

When a man goes to a toilet, he usually goes for one reason, and one reason only. Women use toilets as social lounges and therapy rooms. Women who go to toilet as strangers can come out as friends. But everyone would be instantly suspicious of the man who called out, "Hey Frank! I'm going to the toilet. You wanna come? (ehehehehe.... kang org ingt gay plak kan :-P)

Men dominate remote controls and flick through the channels; women don't mind watching commercials. 

Under pressure, men drink alcohol and invade other countries :-P, women eat chocolates and go shopping :-))

Women criticise men for being insensitive, uncaring, not listening, not being warm and compassionate, not talking, not giving enough love, not being committed to relationships, turning the temperature down, and leaving the toilet seat up. Men criticize women about their driving, for not being able to read street directories, for turning the maps upside down, for their lack of sense of direction, for talking too much without getting to the point, turning the temperature up, and for leaving the toilet seat down. 

Men think they are the most sensible sex. Women know they are.

Caner kite bole terlalu berbeza ek?! Let's go back to our ancient times.. when men and women live in peace and harmony~~~ hehe

zaman dolu-dolu.... lelaki dn pompuan sgt responsible dgn tanggungjawab masing2. MEN PROTECT, AND WOMEN NURTURE. Lelaki selalunye akan lebih tinggi dan kuat dari perempuan, in order to PROTECT. Perempuan selalunye lebih lembut dan sangat berprihatin, in order to NURTURE. To put it in simple words: "HE was the lunch-chaser, and SHE was the nest-defender"

Tanggungjawab lelaki sebagai ketua keluarga adalah memberi perlindungan kpd keluarga dari segi tempat tinggal, makanan dan keselamatan.

Tanggungjawab perempuan utk tinggal di 'gua' membesarkan dan melindungi anak-anak, juga menyambut kepulangan ketua keluarga dengan senang hati.

Untuk menjalankan tanggungjawab masing2 dgn baik, otak lelaki dan perempuan telah berevolusi supaya sesuai dengan peranan 'to protect' or 'to nurture'.Sbb lelaki tujuan hidup die is to protect, so otak lelaki akan lebih cenderung utk 'kurang berkomunikasi' dan lebih kepada 'strategi utk survive/memburu'. Cube tgk balik gamba otak kat atas tue.. The biggest portion is for activities like driving, sports, car fixation dan yang sewaktu dgnnye. Bila otak kita berevolusi with TIME (evolusi mengikut perkembangan dunia semasa), bahagian2 dlm otak lelaki akan lebih cenderung untuk melakukan aktiviti2 yg praktikal dan challenging AS IF it was for 'survival/memburu'. Same mcm perempuan. Perempuan suke bebel dan suke bercakap bende2 feeling sbb zaman dulu2, otak perempuan telah berevolusi utk memainkan peranan sebagai pemberi kasih sayang. Nak bagi kasih sayang dan didikan kat anak-anak, otak mesti mampu utk memproses banyak 'perkataan' dan cenderung utk 'meluahkan perasaan'. 

CONCLUSION..................

Kalo boyfren kite mcm diam je, x penah ckp die sayang kite ke... bukan sbb die xnak ckp... sbb dalam otak die, portion 'communication' tu kecik sgt.. So nak CAKAP tu mmg susah cket. hehehehehe... all in all, kite tau die sayang sbb die 'PROTECT'. Thanx so much dearest! :-))

With Lots of love, wanie :-))