Cerita Lalai

Assalamualaikum w.b.t :-)
 

semoga anda-anda sehat2 belaka!!! (P.S: especially awak yang 'sehat' sgt daa tuuu... heheheeh)

this morning saye dgr hot fm... dorg sembang2 pasal "lalai"..... yelaaa... ade yg sembang pasal da bli brg, da bya kat kaunter, jap g brg2 tetinggal plak..... ade yg citer bwk anak jalan2, jumpe kwn lame sembang2, pastu anak ilang pulak....... ade gak yg citer tgh bawak kete, bru lepas jln2 tgk kuda, nak balik tym maghrib2, tgh sembang2 sambil drive,jalan berbukit2...tak nampak plak kuda sebesar2 alam depan mate XD hahahahaha.... klakanye~~~

eheh.... actually citer2 di atas adalah tokok tambah dari wanie.... actually tdi sempat dgr satu luahan je dpd sorg mamat tu.... die kol laa hot fm nak citer pasal kisah sedih die.. (cehh... sedih ke?) tarik nafas dalam2.............. pesanan penaja... kepada kaum hawa, sebelum anda membaca ceritera ini (ehee)... sile bersabar ye... i know us girls tend to get emotional over these kind of things, but keep and open mind and an open heart... let us not be too judgemental...owait?? And!!! untuk anak cicit adam....anda-anda jgnlah kecik ati ye... dont blame yourself or us for that matter....


okay here goes.................




This guy, lets call him Mr.Y... Mr.Y is an average joe... everyday he goes to work, he had a good life, good money.... and a girlfriend. Die sgt suke layan girlfren die... bwk pegi makan, pegi jalan2, layan mesej2 die... like all couples do. But Mr.Y has one problem... HE'S MARRIED..... WITH A PREGNANT WIFE :-(

Mr.Y sedar Mrs.Y is pregnant with his child..... die ckp, die mmg akan bwk bini die g cek-up sume, tp anta dan amek je.... die tau bini die pregnant, tp tak tolg pon bini die buat keje2 rumah... kalau bini die mintak tolg die marah2.... blinded by a beauty queen yang sentiasa inginkan belaian dan perhatian, Mr.Y jadi very angry whenever Mrs.Y needed something. Until one day, terlafazlah kata-kata yang tidak sepatutnya dari mulut Mr.Y......... die ceraikan isteri die yang sedang mengandung..... (astaghfirullah...)

pada suatu hari, bekas isteri mr.y selamat melahirkan :-) Mr.Y pn ade dtg melawat.. yelah, anak die jugak kan.... Mr.Y pn tengok muke baby tu... die pn kate.... "hey little guy.... ur my baby aren't you? yeah... you're mine...."... maka dengan izin Allah, terbukak lah pintu hati die yang selame-lame nie tertutup oleh janji-janji manis seorang perindu..... (waseh hebat jgk wanie nie) Die nak balik kat bekas isteri die...... dan engkau wahai kekasih, aku mahu lupakan engkau untuk menjadi ayah dan suami yg baik kepada isteri yang sebelum ini aku abaikan.... (serious je wanie nie buat drama!)

punye lah die merayu-rayu kat bekas isteri die.... dan mintak izin kat mak mentua die.... pujuk dn pujuk lagi, finally mrs.y pn agree... but mr.y kate, even until today pon, mrs.y ade dingin sikit kat die.... blum mesra sgt..... tp die ckp, he really cares... and he really love mrs.y..... die menyesal... dan tanak buat lagiii....

Dan Hot fm pon mainkan lagu ini...

lets analyze the situation.....


actually, the way i see it, tak tau la nak salahkan sape... honestly.... i cant say the husband is to blame or the wife is the main victim. I dont even know which is the MAIN PROBLEM? meaning.... well, if we say the problem is actually about the husband yang men kayu tiga, islam menghalalkan poligami kan? if this is the problem, eventho it hurts and it makes us sad, and makes us want to kill somebody, nak blame him pn susah.... sbb tak salah pon kalo nak kawin lagi satu.... hmmm....(awak.. jgn nak berangan tau~hehe) but if we say the main problem is about pengabaian die tu... then he is wrong, sbb bini die pregnant. Kalau nak couple2 ngn pompan len pon, at least pastikan la dulu keperluan isteri die dijaga...... anyway....

as for the wife.... yes dove, your husband (mase tu) mmg agak kejam... tp ini sume sudah dirancang oleh Allah..... mungkin kite yg pompuan nie jgk yg menjadi punca.... mungkin kite tak pandai jage makan minum die... mungkin kita jaga, tapi kite terlalu byk memberi sampaikan die rase rimas... mungkin kite nie byk sgt komplen dan byk sgt ckp dan byk sgt ini dan itu... mungkin kite tak berhias utk suami di rumah, tp nak kua shopping kemian lagi melaram... mungkin kite terlalu mengongkong sampai suami rase nk carik pompuan sebagai tanda yg xde sape boleh kongkong die sbb die lelaki... i dont know you mrs.y, but i hope u r not as i mentioned above... u may be someone sweet and funny, you may be someone with a heart of gold, you may be someone that language is as soft as cotton.... perhaps all these traits makes us too nice and boring.... hmmm.... (am i thinking too much?)

guys cheat because they can.... guys cheat because there's someone out there who's willing to cheat with them... jadi wahai wanita2.... if this happens... dont immediately judge or blame anybody.... truth hurts, but we are strong... if you felt that you lived with a monster, get out and live your own peaceful life... remember... if and only if he really is a monster..but if you felt that your husband main kayu tiga, it would be better if we take matters like this as calm as possible (unless ur husband is a monster then you should pack your bags and move on)....besides... you win when you don't give up :-)

jgn mulekan perang sudah... jgn nak melalak-lalak mintak perhatian sudah.. nangis xpe... it soothes your soul... tp doa lah byk2..... insyaallah Allah tunjukkan jalan :-)

p.s: blame will make things worse. Just chill.... and cry. Live life to the fullest!! Read a book.. make friends.... go buy new clothes... go to spa! hehe... dan tawakkal.... okay doves?? huh! easier said than done!auuuuuu^^ :-) girl power!! hehehe...

p.s lagi: dear, I LIKE IT!!! heheeee... ur writing i meannn... heeee... bes bes :-) huhu. jelesnyee~ 

p.s lagi lagi: aaaa..... owh... jap gi kte pos happy working song plak ea :-) HAPPY WORKING TO YOU AND ME :-))